Let’s say you see that man or woman at a party that always seems to charm anyone that comes towards them. You can tell that group of women just totally digs that man who is talking to them. How about your business colleague that seems to sell anything to anyone? What is it that these people do differently? How do they have such a high level of charisma with these people? Leil Lowndes shows us in her book, How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You, the finest details of what standout people do differently than the others. Remember, it’s the little things that go a long way.
One of the points that Lowndes makes in her work is the eye contact these people give. Not necessarily in a creepy way, but in a “I’m interested in what you have to say” kind of way. Charismatic people are able to establish trust and intimacy from the first conversation. Not only that, they make it all about the person they are talking to. Not necessarily letting the other person dominate the conversation, but just enough to understand where they are coming from.
How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You is all about showing interest in the interests of the other person. This is how you spark a connection. The book goes into much more detail, but this is basically a summary of the point Lowndes tries to make. Having a balance of loving other people and not trying too hard at the same time. Showing interest in those who are interested in talking to us.
How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You not only applies to romance and dating, but also helps develop sales skills. Whether we realize it or not, selling is something we do all our lives. In a job interview, we are selling ourselves. Same as on a first date or meeting potential investors for your business. This book will provide the necessary details that will help you develop more charm to live a greater life. Happy reading!